LETS TALK ABOUT SEX...YES SEX

HEY GUYS AND I MEAN MATURED MINDS ....LETS TALK ABOUT SEX...YES SEX

IN THIS SERIES, WE SHALL BE DISCUSSING SOME OF THE MEDIOCRITIES FOUND IN CHRISTIANITY MOSTLY IN THE AFRICAN SETTING.

YOU CAN SIMPLY CALL ME OKEY, AND I SHALL BE TAKING YOU ON A JOURNEY INTO THE REALITY FACING CHRISTIANITY BY TAKING RELIGION OUT OF CHRISTIANITY AND PRESENTING THE TRUE WORD OF GOD AS IT CONCERNS LOVE, SEX AND ULTIMATELY MARRIAGE.

IN THE CHURCHES TODAY, MOSTLY IN AFRICA THE WORD SEX IS SELDOM MENTIONED, WELL MAY BE DUE TO THE HOLIER THAN THOU ATTITUDE OF SOME PREACHERS OR DUE TO IGNORANCE, FOR  WHATEVER REASON, I THINK ITS AS BAD AS NOT TELLING PEOPLE ABOUT THE LOVE OF CHRIST AND THE REASON FOR HIS DEATH ON THE CROSS OF CALVARY.

YOU WILL AGREE WITH ME THAT IN EUROPE, THE AVERAGE AGE OF PEOPLE YOU FIND IN THE CHURCHES ARE 45 AND ABOVE. AM NOT SAYING THAT YOU DON'T FIND YOUNG PEOPLE IN CHURCH BUT THE OLDER GENERATION OUT NUMBERS THE YOUTH AND THAT IS BECAUSE THE YOUNGER GENERATION NEEDS TO HEAR THINGS THAT PERTAIN TO THEM.

IN AFRICA, WE ARE NECK DEEP INTO TRYING TO LOOK GOOD IN THE SIGHT OF MEN AND BOTTLING UP WHO WE REALLY ARE AND ITS SO MUCH SO IN CHURCHES AND THIS HAS CAUSE SO MUSH TENSION IN THE HEART OF MANY BECAUSE THEY GO TO CHURCH ON SUNDAY, ITS THE SAME OLD PREACHING, MIDWEEK SERVICE IS STILL A CONTINUATION FROM WHERE THEY STOPPED ON SUNDAY AND IF THEY DON'T GO TO CHURCH AT ALL THEY ARE SEEN AS DEVIL INCARNATE, THAT’S AFRICA FOR YOU!

I ASKED A FRIEND OF MINE WHY HE IS NOT MARRIED AT 42, AND HIS BEING A WORKER IN A VERY YOUTHFUL CHURCH SHOULD HAVE MADE IT EASIER, THIS IS HIS REPLY "ALL THE LADIES I SEE IN CHURCH ARE EITHER WAITING TO BE DELIVERED OR JUST BEEN DELIVERED, I DON'T WANT TO MARRY AN EVIL SPIRIT" NOW WHERE DOES THIS LEAVE OUR YOUNG PRETTY CHRISTIAN SISTERS, IF 40% OF THE ELIGIBLE BROTHERS THINK LIKE THIS MY FRIEND. SOMETHING TO PONDER ON

NO MATTER HOW SILENT WE PRONOUNCE THE WORD SEX AND ROMANCE AND HOW SCARED WE CHOOSE TO TREAT THE ISSUE OF SEX AND ROMANCE IN THE CHURCH, THE TRUTH IS, THEY ARE EVER PRESENT IN THE CHURCH! TAKE THE STATISTICS OF YOUNG GUYS IN THE CHURCH, YOU’LL BE AMAZED THAT WHAT BROUGHT THEM TO CHURCH IS JUST TO CATCH A GLIMPSE OF A LADY WHO HE HAS INTEREST IN; SAME ALSO GOES FOR THE LADIES TOO. SO THE QUESTION IS:

IF MOST OF THE RELATIONSHIPS STARTS FROM THE CHURCH AND THAT MEANS THE PASTORS AND REVS SOME HOW DO KNOW ABOUT IT, THEN WHY IS THE ISSUE OF SEX AND ROMANCE SO SILENT IN THE CHURCH. HIGH CLASS HYPOCRISY IF YOU ASK ME.

“TRAIN UP A CHILD IN THE WAY HE SHOULD GO SO THAT WHEN HE IS OLD HE WILL NOT DEPART FROM IT” SO SAYS THE HOLY BOOK

YOU KNOW THE SOCIETY TEND TO FORM THE BASIS OF OUR THOUGHT PATTERN THEREBY MAKING US FORGET IN TOTALITY WHAT GOD SAYS ABOUT THESE ISSUES. THEY SAY THINGS LIKE “MARRIAGE IS NOT A BED OF ROSES” BUT WHAT DOES GOD SAY ABOUT MARRIAGE? THE CHURCH SYSTEM IS SO MEDIOCRE IN NATURE THAT SOMETIMES I WONDER WHY. LOOK AT IT THIS WAY, IN A CHURCH YOU HAVE THE CHILDREN’S CLASS AND THE ADULT CLASS, WHAT HAPPENED TO THE YOUTH CLASS! DO YOU KNOW THE YOUTH FORM THE GREATER PART OF EVERY CHURCH CONGREGATION? YET YOU SEE THEM AS BEING INSIGNIFICANT. WE ALL TALK ABOUT A BETTER TOMORROW YET THE CHURCHES TAKE THE YOUTH WHO FORM THE TOMORROW FOR GRANTED.

WHY DO YOU THINK A YOUNG GUY WILL GO TO A NIGHT CLUB, PICK UP A LADY, LEAVE WITH HER FOR SO MANY MONTHS AS LIVE – IN – LOVER AND THEREAFTER TAKE HER TO THE CHURCH AND GET MARRIED TO HER. WHAT KIND OF A FAMILY DO YOU EXPECT AND DO YOU BLAME THE BROTHER? HELL NO! ASK HIM WHY, HE WILL GIVE YOU A THOUSAND AND ONE REASONS. THE CHURCHES NEED TO BUILD THE CONFIDENCE OF INTER-RELATION IN THE CHRISTIAN YOUTHS AND NOT CREATE THE NOTION THAT IF YOU TALK TO A LADY; YOU ARE KNOCKING ON THE GATE OF HELL AND IF YOU HOLD HER HAND THEN YOU ARE DEVIL’S SECOND – IN – COMMAND.

IN THE GARDEN OF EDEN, SOMETIMES I WONDER WHAT WOULD HAVE HAPPENED IF GOD DID NOT GIVE THAT STERN WARNING AND LAY EMPHASY ON  THAT TREE, MAYBE ADAM AND EVE WOULDN’T HAVE GIVEN IT ANY THOUGHT, ANYWAYS ITS JUST MY OPINION AND MAYBE IT GOES A LONG WAY TO EXPLAIN HOW WE HUMANS THINK. PASTORS AND REVS SHOULD LIBERALISE THE MIND OF THE CHRISTIAN YOUTH ON SEX AND ROMANCE.

AS A RESULT OF THIS PHENOMENON THE YOUNG CHRISTIAN BROTHER IS OF THE OPINION THAT MOST OF THE DECENT LADIES ARE IN THE CHURCH, THEY GO TO CHURCH, FIND A YOUNG BEAUTIFUL LADY, GETS TO KNOW HER AND FINALLY GETS MARRIED TO HER.

NOW THEY ARE MARRIED ON THE GROUND THAT THEY ARE BOTH CHRISTIANS SO EVERYTHING IS GOING ON FINE, THEIR PRAYER LIFE IS OKAY, CHRISTIAN LIFE IS PERFECT, FAMILY LIFE IS OKAY OR ASSUMED TO BE OKAY BUT WAY INSIDE OF THEM, THE MAIN REASON WHY THEY GOT MARRIED IN THE FIRST PLACE, THERE IS A LARGE VACUM BETWEEN THEM.

IT HITS ME BELOW THE BELT TO FIND WORDS LIKE “LOVESICK”(Song of Solomon 2:5) IN THE BIBLE AND SINCE THERE IS A WORD LIKE “SEX STARVE” AND IT’S A CONDITION IN HUMAN BEING NOT JUST APPLICABLE TO SOME SET OF PEOPLE THEN I THINK WHEN IT COMES TO SEX, THE SAME AMOUNT OF EFFORT AND TIME CHRISTIANS GIVE TO PRAYER, BIBLE READING, AND CHURCH ATTENDANCE SHOULD ALSO BE GIVEN TO SEX AND ROMANCE COS IT’S THE SPARK IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP AS A CHRISTIAN AND NON CHRISTIANS. IT IS THE FIRST REASON WHY YOU ARE CALLED HUSBAND AND WIFE… Naked and not ashamed… so says the holy book.

ON A MORE SERIOUS NOTE, IF YOU DON’T LIKE SEX, THEN STAY AWAY FROM MARRIAGE. IT’S NOT MEANT FOR UNSERIOUS MINDS AND PRETENDERS, IT’S A VERY SERIOUS BUSINESS. I HEARD THIS JOKE THAT THE FRUIT ADAM AND EVE ATE IN THE GARDEN OF EDEN WAS THAT THEY ACTUALLY HAD SEX.

IMPORTANTLY THE FIRST COMMANDMENT OF GOD TO HUMANS WAS GO AND REPLENISH THE EARTH HAVE YOU EVER ASKED HOW ONLY ADAM AND EVE WOULD REPLENISH THE EARTH. THEY WERE JUST TWO PEOPLE FOR GOD’S SAKE! ADAM AND EVE MUST HAVE BEEN SEX MACHINES!


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